8 romantic sex positions to bring you closer to your partner（2）

 

Whole body caress：

In this skin-to-skin pose, a person is lying on the ground while their partner is leaning face down on that person's back. If you are on it, support yourself with your elbows or hands. If you support yourself with your elbows, your hands can now freely touch your partner's chest, nipples, and other body parts—especially those that are not frequently touched, such as your back, back of the neck, and buttocks.

Matatas said: "For things like swearing in a low voice, or even just enjoying your partner's groaning and breathing changes, when they become more excited, the closeness of your face has an additional benefit."

Butterfly

If you or your partner have a limited range of motion, this position may be particularly good. In the butterfly position, the partner with limited range of motion lies on his back. Their legs will exceed the shoulders of the person above, and the latter has a greater range of motion, which can help guide the person below to find the perfect position for both of you.

A simpler version of this posture is for the lying person to place his feet on the partner's chest. If the knees of the lying person are wider, the genitals will be exposed more, which means more pleasure.

Seated "V"

Brown-James said that this position could be "very hot and very exciting." The procedure is as follows: a person sits upright with their back against a wall or other surface; their legs are spread out. (You can also bend your knees or bring your legs together.) The other person is straddling the sitting partner.

This position allows the two partners to face each other, and also allows the partner at the top to face back, so that the person at the bottom can get a very good back view. "They can see the roundness of their hips, they can see the elongation and curve of the spine, they can see the hair," Brown James said. Do it in front of the mirror so you can see how you are connected.

Knee bend

Whether you are having vaginal sex, anal sex, or getting stimulation by rubbing your genitals, this posture is very comfortable and has low impact, so you can take your time and have the most fun. The method of operation is as follows: one person lie down on his back, the other person kneels down. The kneeling person then puts one knee between the lying person's legs; their other leg is bent and the foot is placed next to the partner's hip. "It allows maximum exposure of both genitals," Howard said.

"This is my favorite position," Howard said. "I think this is a romantic position, just because I feel strong, beautiful and strong in that position, so I think this kind of permeates the romance of connection."

Tips on how to have the best romantic sex

Although the position itself will make you feel satisfied and connected, there are some ways to make them better. Howard gave these tips:

Change your rhythm, speed and angle.

eye contact.

Touch and attract your partner with your hands.

Give fragile affirmations and positive reinforcements, such as groans or practical words.

Use your body to provide the kind of energy you want to be rewarded at that moment.

Do not limit kissing to the face or genitals. Any part of the body can be kissed. Add a blindfold to make kissing more exciting.

How to bring romantic sex into your life

If you are interested in romantic sex, Howard says to adjust your mood. Light the candles, make sure there are clean sheets on the bed, and play soft music or white noise. (If you don't have any music, the sound of sex can also be "very intoxicating and romantic," she points out.)

Neustifter said that maybe you want to talk to your partner first-they may be happy to hear that you want to try some romance, connection, and sex with them. "One way to bring it up might be to mention this article and say,'Hey, I'm reading this article. I want to know if we can explore this together. I really like you. I really love you, Adoring you, I want to know if it will be fun to give it a try,'" she explained.

The benefits of romantic sex

Because romantic sex is very connected, it can be full of vitality not only physically but also emotionally. If you fall in love with someone you have a romantic relationship with, "it can help remind us where we love this person" and "it can truly affirm the relationship, which can be great, especially when stress is high." Like we are now," Neustifter said.